Category Archives: Competition
Making sure your kid wins
We went away for Memorial Day weekend and met another nice couple with a child the same age as my older daughter. They taught her some fun card games at the beach which both girls seemed to enjoy playing, until my daughter started to figure out how to win. At this point, both her new [...]
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Competition Starts Early
I was at a party this weekend where the majority of the parents present were tutoring their kindergarteners. Let me say that again. TUTORING THEIR KINDERGARTENERS. Clearly I am the ultimate slacker mom as I am impressed that they do anything other than nap in kindergarten. The fact that my daughter is learning to read [...]
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Braggarts
My daughter taught herself to ride a bike sans training wheels yesterday and I couldn’t wait to yell it from the roof tops. I posted it on Facebook. I worked it into conversations, not just with good friends but random strangers. In short, I had become one of those mothers I despise – the one [...]
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Schadenfreude
Do you ever derive pleasure from the misfortunes of others? Like when your neighbor is not accepted to the private school that rejected you as well? Or when you discover that your friend’s kid melts down easier than yours? It’s awful to admit, but as parents, many of us take pleasure in other people’s pain. [...]
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When did sledding become a competitive sport?
We all think our kids are great, but we don’t necessarily need to announce it to the world at every given opportunity. Walking through the snow in Central Park, I stopped to watch some children sledding down a hill, when I heard one parent announce, “That was fabulous Jack. You are the best sledder ever!” [...]
Does Overparenting = Bad Parenting
Time Magazine ran a cover story last week on The Growing Backlash Against Overparenting. The article implies that in our efforts to do the best job possible for our children, we have gone too far, soliciting macrobiotic cupcakes, hypoallergenic socks, and tutors to correct a 5-year-old’s “pencil-holding deficiency”. The article also discusses the whole competitive [...]
Have I told you lately how great my kid is?
As parents we take enormous pride in our children. Occasionally that pride swells over into a competitive edge. We are pleased if our child rolls over, crawls or talks before his peers. We worry if they hit developmental milestones late. We occasionally view it as reinforcement of our good parenting skills when they thrive. [...]
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